Thanks to Bill Gates, Nerd is the new Cool.
This has been happening for the past ten years. Consider indie rock - I mean the real indie rock, not the mass-produced "vintage" tees that Junior Highers have been wearing off of J.C. Penney racks for several years now.
Buddy Holly glasses became mainstream. The margin became the center.
Listen, whippersnappers. I went to Pedro the Lion shows while you were graduating from middle school.
My indie days came in college. Before that, I was not only one of the nerds: I was one of the uncool nerds. Nice, normal kids would raise an eyebrow, say "you're smart, aren't you?" and then scoot their desks back a bit and go back to chatting with their friends about "Friends." Meanwhile, I was studying Spanish vocabulary on the bus every afternoon while everyone around me goofed off.
At college, I found a group that enjoyed being intelligent. This usually consisted of philosophy majors, theology students, and a few lit people thrown in to keep things fun. The inherent weakness of this group was too much appreciation of their own intelligence. But that was easy to take, after years of wandering around an academic wilderness with my history and English trophies - and the giant one that a teacher once created just for me, labeled "philosophical perspectives". (Yes, yes, I was quite the cool kid lugging that around my school hallways.)
Even in seminary, where I found more "like minds" with which to commune, I often found myself one of the only girls in the historical theology classes: one of two in "History of the Sacraments," in fact.
J.K. Rowling has further liberated geeks everywhere through her character Hermione Granger, the book worm, brainy girl of the Harry Potter friend trio Harry, Hermione, and Ron Weasley. While the boys think about sports (Quidditch), Hermione constantly studies - and saves their necks several times with her knowledge. Rowling doesn't gloss over Hermione's weaknesses, but neither does she hide her strengths.
In fact, in a book on Harry Potter and philosophy, one intriguing article dissects Rowling's fiction in a study of Hermione, feminism, and intelligence. And that raises an important point: is nerdiness friendlier in one gender than the other? Is it easier to be, say, Bill Gates, than it is to be Condoleezza Rice? Both people are extremely intelligent; are world leaders; are alone, in many ways, because of their own personal success.
But back to the indie rock culture of beloved nerds. Somewhere along the way, bowling shoes replaced Air Jordans, thrift store finds pre-empted department store wealth, and bands without a major label populated CD players over and above boy bands and manufactured, bland pop music. Low-lit, low-key "shows" replaced blazing, hi-tech concerts, by and large, and it seemed as if the arts and sciences were merging in a new, strange way: the brilliance, for instance, pops onto my television screen with every Mac user commercial. When did computer science allow math geeks to become - well - cool?
Nerds everywhere are flourishing, because now, more than in the past fifty years, they have a niche. Personal computers make it easy to record your own music (art) through innovative programming (science), cut your own films (art) through additional programs (science), and produce your own photographs (art) through user-friendly programs like PhotoShop (science).
It's not always easy to be on the margins. But all in all, it's the most interesting place to be.
Tuesday, December 23, 2008
Wednesday, December 17, 2008
Homing Pigeons
I have a secret.
It's about pigeons.
For several years now, my heart has yearned for a homing pigeon. A pigeon to carry messages to all my friends and family. A pigeon of my own.
Cruel compatriots informed me that carrier pigeons are extinct. I refused to believe.
And then I saw this:
Pigeon trainer from WWII dies http://www.nytimes.com/2008/12/14/us/14topus.html
Here's my theory: if the United States was using a bona fide pigeoneer in World War II - and the country was battling off the Nazi falcons attacking the U.S. pigeons (read the article, I'm not kidding) - then isn't it reasonable to suspect that the CIA is still using homing pigeons?
Now, it's true, I make this argument so that I can hold out hope that one day, chums can install stoops outside their kitchen windows to receive my homing pigeon. They will allow it to perch on their hands, while unwinding the tiny message on lightweight paper from its leg. "Come over for spaghetti. I'm making homemade sauce" will be scribbled inside. "I'll bring salad," they'll respond.
So this year, Santa, you can keep your world peace. I'll take one homing pigeon, please.
It's about pigeons.
For several years now, my heart has yearned for a homing pigeon. A pigeon to carry messages to all my friends and family. A pigeon of my own.
Cruel compatriots informed me that carrier pigeons are extinct. I refused to believe.
And then I saw this:
Pigeon trainer from WWII dies http://www.nytimes.com/2008/12/14/us/14topus.html
Here's my theory: if the United States was using a bona fide pigeoneer in World War II - and the country was battling off the Nazi falcons attacking the U.S. pigeons (read the article, I'm not kidding) - then isn't it reasonable to suspect that the CIA is still using homing pigeons?
Now, it's true, I make this argument so that I can hold out hope that one day, chums can install stoops outside their kitchen windows to receive my homing pigeon. They will allow it to perch on their hands, while unwinding the tiny message on lightweight paper from its leg. "Come over for spaghetti. I'm making homemade sauce" will be scribbled inside. "I'll bring salad," they'll respond.
So this year, Santa, you can keep your world peace. I'll take one homing pigeon, please.
Three French Hens
What makes a hen French, anyway? It's accent?
Here are a few fun things to browse: it's bitterly cold here, tucked away in the rolling pastures of the Bluegrass. Ice and snow have brought desolate news from Wall Street - but inside, we sip steaming cups of tea, curl up under blankets, and puzzle out the last few knots and tangles from our shopping lists. Right now I'm tag-teaming between "Jane Eyre" (Angie - I borrowed your copy from your bulging bookshelf) and "The Fellowship of the Ring." A blessed event occurred yesterday: I was "iced" in, and read at my leisure, until my head drooped and nodded onto my chest, and I slumbered, and the world outside slumbered with me.
Have you ever yearned for a patch of Italian meadow to spring up right outside your door? Someone did: http://www.olivabella.com/bottega.htm
A local storefront serves up robust, homemade sauces, and artisanal olive oils; in fact, they know the farmers and their families by name, back in the old country. A hands-on olive harvest, I'd say.
This calls for a field trip.
When weather is bleak - the Rossetti bleak midwinter - it is tempting to pile a plate high with pasta, and hunker down with chums, as I did recently, to watch a movie. Especially if it's an old movie,
with high-waisted pants and fast talkers - like "His Girl Friday." But inevitably, entranced by the starlets of the silver screen, I want to wear full-skirted dresses, tiny, feathered hats, gloves, and so on.
And now, you can. Visit modcloth.com, or monstervintage.com.
Monstervintage has individual pieces, one-of-a-kind. Modcloth crafts frocks and pants in a retro style.
Speaking of classic movies, I stumbled across a rather unique product today, an ode to one of the great directors, a tribute to tense, white-knuckled suspense, a trophy of terror.
I am, of course, speaking about the commemorative Barbie for Alfred Hitchcock's "The Birds." I feel compelled to showcase this startling doll simply for the fact that throughout the afternoon, friends and relatives have been exclaiming their heart's desire for this doll. Who, it should be noted, comes complete with attacking crows.
Let's hope they don't opt for a companion product for "Psycho."
Since fashion keeps cropping up, let's enjoy a fireside chat about Inaugural threads, shall we? While the enthusiasm that has been gushing from the media about Barack Obama's physique has been a little, shall we say, bordering on the adolescent, there's plenty of other speculation we can indulge in about D.C. fashion: and it is interesting, simply because I've been there. At a Presidential Inauguration.
Have I not mentioned that before?
Well, in the year 2000, a vanload of fellow students and I made a dashing road trip from Indiana to Washington, D.C., for the now legendary (in whatever way you wish to read) George W. Bush's introduction to the Oval Office. The city was packed. Snipers lined the rooftops, and black-clad men lay on their stomachs with large guns pointed out from the dome of the Capitol building. Protesters wearing polar bear costumes marched for the environment, security checkpoints were set up to search bags, and everywhere, bone-chilling rain fell on bundled up crowds. Umbrellas got tangled in the pushing masses' attempts to navigate sidewalks. Few times have I been so cold. We stood atop some bleachers to watch the Inaugural Parade pass by, huddled, shaking, shivering.
And later in the day, on the Metro?
Ladies in full-length ballgowns, gentlemen in tuxedoes, standing, holding the stabilizing rails - on the subway. Because parking was simply impossible on the night of the Inauguration, many simply took the train. And so I saw gorgeous, shimmering dresses sway back and forth with the train's movement, and high heels navigated the gap onto the platform. Swank folk descended on mass transit in surprising crowds. Did you know that the new President and spouse rotate among something like eight or ten different balls and parties, at least?
Well, here's a piece on Inaugural fashion if you'd like to continue: Gown registration started for Inauguration http://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2008/dec/17/dc-crisis-what-to-wear-to-the-balls/
I don't envy Michelle Obama facing what amounts to Red Carpet fashion pressure. The First Lady-Elect has had innumerable articles penned about her style and her figure already. I'm sure she will be stunning. Especially if her ensemble comes without three black crows attached to it.
Here are a few fun things to browse: it's bitterly cold here, tucked away in the rolling pastures of the Bluegrass. Ice and snow have brought desolate news from Wall Street - but inside, we sip steaming cups of tea, curl up under blankets, and puzzle out the last few knots and tangles from our shopping lists. Right now I'm tag-teaming between "Jane Eyre" (Angie - I borrowed your copy from your bulging bookshelf) and "The Fellowship of the Ring." A blessed event occurred yesterday: I was "iced" in, and read at my leisure, until my head drooped and nodded onto my chest, and I slumbered, and the world outside slumbered with me.
Have you ever yearned for a patch of Italian meadow to spring up right outside your door? Someone did: http://www.olivabella.com/bottega.htm
A local storefront serves up robust, homemade sauces, and artisanal olive oils; in fact, they know the farmers and their families by name, back in the old country. A hands-on olive harvest, I'd say.
This calls for a field trip.
When weather is bleak - the Rossetti bleak midwinter - it is tempting to pile a plate high with pasta, and hunker down with chums, as I did recently, to watch a movie. Especially if it's an old movie,
with high-waisted pants and fast talkers - like "His Girl Friday." But inevitably, entranced by the starlets of the silver screen, I want to wear full-skirted dresses, tiny, feathered hats, gloves, and so on.And now, you can. Visit modcloth.com, or monstervintage.com.
Monstervintage has individual pieces, one-of-a-kind. Modcloth crafts frocks and pants in a retro style.
Speaking of classic movies, I stumbled across a rather unique product today, an ode to one of the great directors, a tribute to tense, white-knuckled suspense, a trophy of terror.
I am, of course, speaking about the commemorative Barbie for Alfred Hitchcock's "The Birds." I feel compelled to showcase this startling doll simply for the fact that throughout the afternoon, friends and relatives have been exclaiming their heart's desire for this doll. Who, it should be noted, comes complete with attacking crows.
Let's hope they don't opt for a companion product for "Psycho."
Since fashion keeps cropping up, let's enjoy a fireside chat about Inaugural threads, shall we? While the enthusiasm that has been gushing from the media about Barack Obama's physique has been a little, shall we say, bordering on the adolescent, there's plenty of other speculation we can indulge in about D.C. fashion: and it is interesting, simply because I've been there. At a Presidential Inauguration.
Have I not mentioned that before?
Well, in the year 2000, a vanload of fellow students and I made a dashing road trip from Indiana to Washington, D.C., for the now legendary (in whatever way you wish to read) George W. Bush's introduction to the Oval Office. The city was packed. Snipers lined the rooftops, and black-clad men lay on their stomachs with large guns pointed out from the dome of the Capitol building. Protesters wearing polar bear costumes marched for the environment, security checkpoints were set up to search bags, and everywhere, bone-chilling rain fell on bundled up crowds. Umbrellas got tangled in the pushing masses' attempts to navigate sidewalks. Few times have I been so cold. We stood atop some bleachers to watch the Inaugural Parade pass by, huddled, shaking, shivering.
And later in the day, on the Metro?
Ladies in full-length ballgowns, gentlemen in tuxedoes, standing, holding the stabilizing rails - on the subway. Because parking was simply impossible on the night of the Inauguration, many simply took the train. And so I saw gorgeous, shimmering dresses sway back and forth with the train's movement, and high heels navigated the gap onto the platform. Swank folk descended on mass transit in surprising crowds. Did you know that the new President and spouse rotate among something like eight or ten different balls and parties, at least?
Well, here's a piece on Inaugural fashion if you'd like to continue: Gown registration started for Inauguration http://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2008/dec/17/dc-crisis-what-to-wear-to-the-balls/
I don't envy Michelle Obama facing what amounts to Red Carpet fashion pressure. The First Lady-Elect has had innumerable articles penned about her style and her figure already. I'm sure she will be stunning. Especially if her ensemble comes without three black crows attached to it.
Friday, December 12, 2008
Bits of String
Consider this the smattering of household flotsam and jetsam that collects at the bottom of your junk drawer, like bits of string.
First, there's a new post at http://www.impoverishedpolitics.wordpress.com.
Second, an Open Letter to J.K. Rowling's attorneys:
Dear Law Firm,
Despite your solicitors' resemblance to dementors - those beings that suck the life and joy out of others - your fans request that you banish these legal dementors back to Azkaban.
Why has this issue arisen? Because, after traveling to a favorite store to buy the usual Yuletide stocking stuffers of Chocolate Frogs, Bertie Bott's Every Flavor Beans, and Droobles' Best Blowing Gum, I found out that the company that produced these products LOST THEIR LICENSE.
You, J.K. Rowling's solicitors, are scrooges. SCROOGES!
Sincerely,
Me.
First, there's a new post at http://www.impoverishedpolitics.wordpress.com.
Second, an Open Letter to J.K. Rowling's attorneys:
Dear Law Firm,
Despite your solicitors' resemblance to dementors - those beings that suck the life and joy out of others - your fans request that you banish these legal dementors back to Azkaban.
Why has this issue arisen? Because, after traveling to a favorite store to buy the usual Yuletide stocking stuffers of Chocolate Frogs, Bertie Bott's Every Flavor Beans, and Droobles' Best Blowing Gum, I found out that the company that produced these products LOST THEIR LICENSE.
You, J.K. Rowling's solicitors, are scrooges. SCROOGES!
Sincerely,
Me.
Thursday, December 11, 2008
Second Edition
It is so cold, I just saw a penguin with frostbite.
In other news, I thought there was one message on our answering machine.
Turns out, it was blinking alternating digits: 2. 1. 2. 1.
Because there wasn't one message. There were 21 MESSAGES.
So, ah, sorry if you've called and we haven't gotten back with you. Family was down visiting last weekend and we really didn't answer the phone much.
Obviously.
Ahem.
And now, for something completely different: another edition of "Name That Quote." Partially because it was fun, mostly because I like to watch Emily's brain explode as she wrestles with identifying elusive movie quotes. By the way: these all come from one genre.
#1:
"Oh, right! To call you stupid would be an insult to stupid people! I've known sheep that could outwit you. I've worn dresses with higher IQs. But you think you're an intellectual, don't you, ape?"
"Apes don't read philosophy. "
"Yes they do, Otto. They just don't understand it. Now let me correct you on a couple of things, OK? Aristotle was not Belgian. The central message of Buddhism is not "Every man for himself." And the London Underground is not a political movement. Those are all mistakes, Otto. I looked them up."
Kudos, Mom: "A Fish Called Wanda" gave us those great lines.
#2:
"I never liked a girl well enough to give her 12 sharp knives."
Here's another quote from this flick, for a hint: "Have you tried STAPLES?"
"Scrooged"
#3: "He was always a rather stupidly optimistic man. I mean, I'm afraid it came as a great shock to him when he died, but, he was found dead at home. His head had been cut off, and so had his, uh... you know. I had been out all evening at the movies."
"Do you miss him?"
"Well, it's a matter of life after death. Now that he's dead, I have a life."
"But, he was your second husband. Your first husband also disappeared."
"But that was his job. He was an illusionist."
"But he never reappeared!"
"He wasn't a very good illusionist."
Emily got this one, lines from the side-splitting actress Madeline Kahn in "Clue."
#4: "None of us have been here before, love. I mean, my John didn't see me naked until the spring of 1975."
"What happened in the spring of '75?"
"There was a lizard in the shower block at Abergele. Quite a few people saw me naked that morning."
"Calendar Girls," a great British comedy about middle-aged women who strategically strip down behind homemaking implements for a local Women's Institute calendar, to raise funds to fight cancer.
#5:"Where are the passports and tickets?"
"I put them in the microwave to dry em' off."
My brother Ethan is the only to have gotten this one: "Home Alone."
#6:
"Have you all decided?"
"Madam, we must have waffles! We must all have waffles forthwith! We must all think, and we must all have waffles, and think each and every one of us to the very best of his ability..."
Here's another hint: "This is a Christian house, boy. No hippity-hop language in here."
"The Ladykillers"
#7: "Or are you here to tell me what a bad eugoogoolizer I am?"
"A what?"
"A eugoogoolizer... one who speaks at funerals. Or did you think I was too stupid to know what a eugoogooly was?"
This is, indeed, from "Zoolander," as Emily correctly guessed.
#8:
"Well, I wouldn't argue that it wasn't a no-holds-barred, adrenaline-fuelled thrill ride. But there is no way you can perpetrate that amount of carnage and mayhem and not incur a considerable amount of paperwork."
Yes, one or several of you guessed the very British action spoof "Hot Fuzz."
#9:
"I can't believe we drove around all day, and there's not a single job in this town. There is nothing, nada, zip!"
"Yeah! Unless you wanna work forty hours a week."
One of the lesser-quoted exchanges from the oft-quoted comedy "Dumb & Dumber."
#10:
"What are you doing in my dad's coffin?!"
This movie is one of the best British comedies I've seen recently: "Death at a Funeral."
Have fun figuring them out, folks!
In other news, I thought there was one message on our answering machine.
Turns out, it was blinking alternating digits: 2. 1. 2. 1.
Because there wasn't one message. There were 21 MESSAGES.
So, ah, sorry if you've called and we haven't gotten back with you. Family was down visiting last weekend and we really didn't answer the phone much.
Obviously.
Ahem.
And now, for something completely different: another edition of "Name That Quote." Partially because it was fun, mostly because I like to watch Emily's brain explode as she wrestles with identifying elusive movie quotes. By the way: these all come from one genre.
#1:
"Oh, right! To call you stupid would be an insult to stupid people! I've known sheep that could outwit you. I've worn dresses with higher IQs. But you think you're an intellectual, don't you, ape?"
"Apes don't read philosophy. "
"Yes they do, Otto. They just don't understand it. Now let me correct you on a couple of things, OK? Aristotle was not Belgian. The central message of Buddhism is not "Every man for himself." And the London Underground is not a political movement. Those are all mistakes, Otto. I looked them up."
Kudos, Mom: "A Fish Called Wanda" gave us those great lines.
#2:
"I never liked a girl well enough to give her 12 sharp knives."
Here's another quote from this flick, for a hint: "Have you tried STAPLES?"
"Scrooged"
#3: "He was always a rather stupidly optimistic man. I mean, I'm afraid it came as a great shock to him when he died, but, he was found dead at home. His head had been cut off, and so had his, uh... you know. I had been out all evening at the movies."
"Do you miss him?"
"Well, it's a matter of life after death. Now that he's dead, I have a life."
"But, he was your second husband. Your first husband also disappeared."
"But that was his job. He was an illusionist."
"But he never reappeared!"
"He wasn't a very good illusionist."
Emily got this one, lines from the side-splitting actress Madeline Kahn in "Clue."
#4: "None of us have been here before, love. I mean, my John didn't see me naked until the spring of 1975."
"What happened in the spring of '75?"
"There was a lizard in the shower block at Abergele. Quite a few people saw me naked that morning."
"Calendar Girls," a great British comedy about middle-aged women who strategically strip down behind homemaking implements for a local Women's Institute calendar, to raise funds to fight cancer.
#5:"Where are the passports and tickets?"
"I put them in the microwave to dry em' off."
My brother Ethan is the only to have gotten this one: "Home Alone."
#6:
"Have you all decided?"
"Madam, we must have waffles! We must all have waffles forthwith! We must all think, and we must all have waffles, and think each and every one of us to the very best of his ability..."
Here's another hint: "This is a Christian house, boy. No hippity-hop language in here."
"The Ladykillers"
#7: "Or are you here to tell me what a bad eugoogoolizer I am?"
"A what?"
"A eugoogoolizer... one who speaks at funerals. Or did you think I was too stupid to know what a eugoogooly was?"
This is, indeed, from "Zoolander," as Emily correctly guessed.
#8:
"Well, I wouldn't argue that it wasn't a no-holds-barred, adrenaline-fuelled thrill ride. But there is no way you can perpetrate that amount of carnage and mayhem and not incur a considerable amount of paperwork."
Yes, one or several of you guessed the very British action spoof "Hot Fuzz."
#9:
"I can't believe we drove around all day, and there's not a single job in this town. There is nothing, nada, zip!"
"Yeah! Unless you wanna work forty hours a week."
One of the lesser-quoted exchanges from the oft-quoted comedy "Dumb & Dumber."
#10:
"What are you doing in my dad's coffin?!"
This movie is one of the best British comedies I've seen recently: "Death at a Funeral."
Have fun figuring them out, folks!
Monday, December 8, 2008
Name That Quote
Alright, it's time to give a few hints to some of the more trying clues: hints will be injected in red alongside the quotes to which they pertain. Have fun! I'll also post the correct answers that have been submitted.
So Emily's been having a blast over at "Hat and Gloves" quizzing folks on movie quotes.
But I want to have a blast too, without blasters, those laser-beaming guns that Storm Troopers carry around in "Star Wars."
So, without further ado - and without IMDB, or Google, mind you - identify the movies that contain these quotes:
1. "Why do you wear black all the time?"
"I'm in mourning for my lost childhood."
from "What About Bob?"
2. "We bare our souls and tell the most appalling secrets."
comes to you via "Little Women"
3. "That is the ugliest lamp I have ever seen!"
this should be running 24/7 soon on cable..."A Christmas Story"
4. "You pooped in the refrigerator? AND you ate a whole wheel of cheese? How'd you do that? That's amazing. Heck, I'm not even mad."
Will Ferrell's conversation with his dog in "Anchorman"
5. "Is she a Republican?"
"I can't help myself."
Meg Ryan to Greg Kinnear in "You've Got Mail," a college favorite. Trivia: Emily's grandmother used to babysit Greg Kinnear's dad. Indiana is a small town somebody made a state.
6. "You gonna do something? Or are you just gonna stand there and bleed?"
Here's another quote from this flick: "Why Kate, you're not wearing a bustle. How lewd. "
A HA! Emily finally hit the nail on the head..."Tombstone."
7. "With a prompter in every cellar window whispering comebacks, shy people would have the last laugh."
I'm glad you got this, Emily: "Amelie", a French movie
8. "Oh, no, I mustn't. Madame Audel is in mourning for her husband."
So Emily's been having a blast over at "Hat and Gloves" quizzing folks on movie quotes.
But I want to have a blast too, without blasters, those laser-beaming guns that Storm Troopers carry around in "Star Wars."
So, without further ado - and without IMDB, or Google, mind you - identify the movies that contain these quotes:
1. "Why do you wear black all the time?"
"I'm in mourning for my lost childhood."
from "What About Bob?"
2. "We bare our souls and tell the most appalling secrets."
comes to you via "Little Women"
3. "That is the ugliest lamp I have ever seen!"
this should be running 24/7 soon on cable..."A Christmas Story"
4. "You pooped in the refrigerator? AND you ate a whole wheel of cheese? How'd you do that? That's amazing. Heck, I'm not even mad."
Will Ferrell's conversation with his dog in "Anchorman"
5. "Is she a Republican?"
"I can't help myself."
Meg Ryan to Greg Kinnear in "You've Got Mail," a college favorite. Trivia: Emily's grandmother used to babysit Greg Kinnear's dad. Indiana is a small town somebody made a state.
6. "You gonna do something? Or are you just gonna stand there and bleed?"
Here's another quote from this flick: "Why Kate, you're not wearing a bustle. How lewd. "
A HA! Emily finally hit the nail on the head..."Tombstone."
7. "With a prompter in every cellar window whispering comebacks, shy people would have the last laugh."
I'm glad you got this, Emily: "Amelie", a French movie
8. "Oh, no, I mustn't. Madame Audel is in mourning for her husband."
"Oh. I'm sorry. When did he pass away?"
"The war. German grenade."
"Oh, I see. Well, it's been 15 years since the war, so surely..."
"No, not that war. Monsieur Audel was killed on January the 12th, 1917. It was quite a blow to Madame Audel."
"Apparently so."
Here's a series of delectable quotes from this same movie, that no one has yet guessed:
[at confession] "Each time I tell myself it's the last time, but then I get a whiff of her hot chocolate, or..."
Here's a series of delectable quotes from this same movie, that no one has yet guessed:
[at confession] "Each time I tell myself it's the last time, but then I get a whiff of her hot chocolate, or..."
"...Seashells. Chocolate seashells, so small, so plain, so innocent. I thought, oh, just one little taste, it can't do any harm. But it turned out they were filled with rich, sinful..."
"...And it melts, God forgive me, it melts ever so slowly on your tongue, and tortures you with pleasure."
Emily finally got it: "Chocolat."
9. "Hey look, mister - we serve hard drinks in here for men who want to get drunk fast, and we don't need any characters around to give the joint "atmosphere". Is that clear, or do I have to slip you my left for a convincer?"
one of my all-time favorite movies, "It's a Wonderful Life."
10. "Oh, sit up straight, Jane! Pull your shoulders back! A man could go a long way without seeing a figure like yours, if you could only make the most of it!"
the five-hour, watch-them-all-marathon-style, BBC version of Jane Austen's "Pride & Prejudice" - I am happy to say, sans Kiera Knightley.
Have fun unraveling these lines from some of my favorite films! You may place your guesses in "comments."
Old-Fashioned. Small Town. Christmas.
Bedford Falls? Mayberry?
Or small town in Kentucky?
It's difficult to say, really. When my dad and his fiance came down to visit this weekend, we went to "An Old-Fashioned Christmas" on Saturday evening. Now, we missed the town tree lighting (think the town tree in Whoville) and the Mayor's address, and the elf costume contest. Which is fine with me, really, because it was like minus 70 degrees outside. Or maybe it was like 30 degrees outside. It felt the same.
"But," you say, "what IS an old-fashioned Christmas, Big Red Couch?"
Ah, I will tell you, gentle reader, right between blowing my nose and sipping my piping hot coffee, and rasping out statements in deep throaty tones.
The Local Police barricade off several hundred feet of Main Street - which, by the way, is all of downtown - and everybody and their neighbor and sister in law and dogs on leashes goes out and walks up and down.
Because all the businesses are open, their windows and doors letting out streams of light in the dark, and they have people playing music inside on keyboards and guitars and Bluegrassy instruments, and they serve hot chocolate and hot cider and ginger ale, and cookies and pretzels and cream puffs and fudge, and everybody stands in line and then accidentally blocks the doorway because they just saw an old friend and begin to catch up with them, and you get to see people you never see anymore, and someone sings Christmas music in the background, and you walk around with your pockets stuffed with cups of leftover pretzels and complimentary calendars from the drug store. The quaint marketing firm takes Christmas portraits of you and your friends goofing off, and the City Hall features town council members doling out little sausages from a crock pot, and the mayor still looks Dickensian from his earlier speech because he's dressed in an 1800's suit, and they queue you out the other door which goes through the Police Department lobby. This year, I didn't go in the beauty shop/gift shop that always features puppy chow, but I did go in the new bank, which thoughtfully put out marshmallows with their hot chocolate. I also give two thumbs up to their fudge. While we didn't go to the Methodists' chili and sandwich supper, we did stop in at the post office and help ourselves to snacks, which my editor's wife was serving with a smile. I need to remember to ask her where she got her top, it was stunning.
What's that? You want to know what my favorite stops are?
Well, I'm partial to the drug store, because it's an old-fashioned one with a working soda fountain/restaurant, with the pharmacy window at the back. Their brick oven pizza is a-MAZ-ing. And a lady from my favorite old church sings there every year, and they used to give out Norman Rockwell calendars, though I dock them a point this year because instead they were pocket-sized normal calendars. I also enjoy City Hall, because the town council pours you Diet Coke and sometimes my friend Barney is working there.
But the other places are delightful, too, and it's fun to see new businesses open up, or to visit businesses you don't normally stop by.
What's that? You don't believe it could really be this idyllic? Well, that's true. There was a scandalous moment when two dog-walking perusers allowed their canines a bit too close to each other, which resulted in a lot of barked threats. But it came to naught, because the owners just reined in the leashes. So, crisis averted.
I saw a friend I haven't really seen much since we were both in Oxford, England for a week, and his wife, who is the world's only woman who is both a model and truly sweet and kind. I saw a seminary friend who has always had a beautiful spirit, and now has developed a svelte figure to complement it. I saw my pastor from my favorite old church, and my good friend Emily, who was bundled up head-to-toe, and another friend, a real, live Kentuckian named Bubba - really - whose roommate's name is - really - Catfish. I saw my ol' ringbearer, who chattered his teeth and said "I-i-i n-need g-g-gloves."
So, this Christmas, if you're tempted to feel jaded, cynical, or discouraged, be of good cheer. There are still places like this in the world - places of community and welcome, hospitality and warmth, hot chocolate and peanut butter fudge. It was truly a Mitford scene; Father Tim and Cynthia might actually have been mingling in the crowd, I'm not sure.
Though my cold didn't wear any better for it, my spirit did. Plenty of bells hanging from shop doors were ringing constantly: I think Clarence did manage to get his wings.
Or small town in Kentucky?
It's difficult to say, really. When my dad and his fiance came down to visit this weekend, we went to "An Old-Fashioned Christmas" on Saturday evening. Now, we missed the town tree lighting (think the town tree in Whoville) and the Mayor's address, and the elf costume contest. Which is fine with me, really, because it was like minus 70 degrees outside. Or maybe it was like 30 degrees outside. It felt the same.
"But," you say, "what IS an old-fashioned Christmas, Big Red Couch?"
Ah, I will tell you, gentle reader, right between blowing my nose and sipping my piping hot coffee, and rasping out statements in deep throaty tones.
The Local Police barricade off several hundred feet of Main Street - which, by the way, is all of downtown - and everybody and their neighbor and sister in law and dogs on leashes goes out and walks up and down.
Because all the businesses are open, their windows and doors letting out streams of light in the dark, and they have people playing music inside on keyboards and guitars and Bluegrassy instruments, and they serve hot chocolate and hot cider and ginger ale, and cookies and pretzels and cream puffs and fudge, and everybody stands in line and then accidentally blocks the doorway because they just saw an old friend and begin to catch up with them, and you get to see people you never see anymore, and someone sings Christmas music in the background, and you walk around with your pockets stuffed with cups of leftover pretzels and complimentary calendars from the drug store. The quaint marketing firm takes Christmas portraits of you and your friends goofing off, and the City Hall features town council members doling out little sausages from a crock pot, and the mayor still looks Dickensian from his earlier speech because he's dressed in an 1800's suit, and they queue you out the other door which goes through the Police Department lobby. This year, I didn't go in the beauty shop/gift shop that always features puppy chow, but I did go in the new bank, which thoughtfully put out marshmallows with their hot chocolate. I also give two thumbs up to their fudge. While we didn't go to the Methodists' chili and sandwich supper, we did stop in at the post office and help ourselves to snacks, which my editor's wife was serving with a smile. I need to remember to ask her where she got her top, it was stunning.
What's that? You want to know what my favorite stops are?
Well, I'm partial to the drug store, because it's an old-fashioned one with a working soda fountain/restaurant, with the pharmacy window at the back. Their brick oven pizza is a-MAZ-ing. And a lady from my favorite old church sings there every year, and they used to give out Norman Rockwell calendars, though I dock them a point this year because instead they were pocket-sized normal calendars. I also enjoy City Hall, because the town council pours you Diet Coke and sometimes my friend Barney is working there.
But the other places are delightful, too, and it's fun to see new businesses open up, or to visit businesses you don't normally stop by.
What's that? You don't believe it could really be this idyllic? Well, that's true. There was a scandalous moment when two dog-walking perusers allowed their canines a bit too close to each other, which resulted in a lot of barked threats. But it came to naught, because the owners just reined in the leashes. So, crisis averted.
I saw a friend I haven't really seen much since we were both in Oxford, England for a week, and his wife, who is the world's only woman who is both a model and truly sweet and kind. I saw a seminary friend who has always had a beautiful spirit, and now has developed a svelte figure to complement it. I saw my pastor from my favorite old church, and my good friend Emily, who was bundled up head-to-toe, and another friend, a real, live Kentuckian named Bubba - really - whose roommate's name is - really - Catfish. I saw my ol' ringbearer, who chattered his teeth and said "I-i-i n-need g-g-gloves."
So, this Christmas, if you're tempted to feel jaded, cynical, or discouraged, be of good cheer. There are still places like this in the world - places of community and welcome, hospitality and warmth, hot chocolate and peanut butter fudge. It was truly a Mitford scene; Father Tim and Cynthia might actually have been mingling in the crowd, I'm not sure.
Though my cold didn't wear any better for it, my spirit did. Plenty of bells hanging from shop doors were ringing constantly: I think Clarence did manage to get his wings.
Monday, December 1, 2008
If You Broke Your Brain
It's quite possible that some of you who like to stop by and sit on the couch for a while have had your brains broken.
Not by me. Not yet, anyway.
No, by the marathon of political, economic, and warfare news that citizens have endured for months on end.
What? You need a change of scenery? A change of pace? Something light-hearted, quirky, inane, or baffling?
Well, then, you've come to the right couch. Follow Alice and the White Rabbit down these links:
"The Magician's Book: A Skeptic's Adventures in Narnia"
Illinois Ball Bearing Company Stuns Plant Workers with Five Figure Bonuses
Vatican Exhibit Only on Display at Houston Funeral Museum
Bystander Beat Knife-Wielding Attacker with Two-Foot Candy Cane
Preserving the City: Church and State
Geeky Toys that Will Make You a Christmas Hero
"The Hungry Scientist Handbook: Electric Birthday Cakes, Edible Origami, and Other DIY Projects for Techies, Tinkerers and Foodies"
Build-a-Beard
The Onion: Department Store Santa Told to Push Chinaware
Uke, Washboard and Kazoo Music from 1928, or, Why I Love You Tube
Things That Should Never Exist: a Dwight Schrute Tattoo
Nerf Factory Riot in China
The Jesus Way
"The Pirate's Dilemma: How Youth Culture Is Reinventing Capitalism"
Best quote from one of these stories?
"Only a certain segment of people are interested in caskets and mourning clothes," said museum president Robert Boetticher. "We feel the papal exhibit will be quite a draw for other people, and that then when they come in they'll see everything else."
Not by me. Not yet, anyway.
No, by the marathon of political, economic, and warfare news that citizens have endured for months on end.
What? You need a change of scenery? A change of pace? Something light-hearted, quirky, inane, or baffling?
Well, then, you've come to the right couch. Follow Alice and the White Rabbit down these links:
"The Magician's Book: A Skeptic's Adventures in Narnia"
Illinois Ball Bearing Company Stuns Plant Workers with Five Figure Bonuses
Vatican Exhibit Only on Display at Houston Funeral Museum
Bystander Beat Knife-Wielding Attacker with Two-Foot Candy Cane
Preserving the City: Church and State
Geeky Toys that Will Make You a Christmas Hero
"The Hungry Scientist Handbook: Electric Birthday Cakes, Edible Origami, and Other DIY Projects for Techies, Tinkerers and Foodies"
Build-a-Beard
The Onion: Department Store Santa Told to Push Chinaware
Uke, Washboard and Kazoo Music from 1928, or, Why I Love You Tube
Things That Should Never Exist: a Dwight Schrute Tattoo
Nerf Factory Riot in China
The Jesus Way
"The Pirate's Dilemma: How Youth Culture Is Reinventing Capitalism"
Best quote from one of these stories?
"Only a certain segment of people are interested in caskets and mourning clothes," said museum president Robert Boetticher. "We feel the papal exhibit will be quite a draw for other people, and that then when they come in they'll see everything else."
Wednesday, November 26, 2008
I Hang Out With Virgins
It's one of those days. THOSE days, when you're either getting ready to eat, or eating, or getting ready to travel, or traveling, or getting ready for guests. Or you might be eating while getting ready for guests who are traveling.
My calves are almost cramping. I say almost, because I think at the moment putting one foot in front on the other would create an Olympic athlete-scale cramp, the kind where everybody stops and rushes out onto the football field and everyone's like "oh no, he has a broken neck" but then it turns out to be a muscle cramp but the guy's too embarrassed to admit it so he hobbles off really feebly to make the point that he's not a sissy.
I've returned to Jazzercise. When I first heard the name "Jazzercise," I seriously thought it was like some old folks' exercise routine, like "Sittercise" on PBS where you sit in your chair and do waving motions or leg lifts to Patriotic music from the 30's or 40's.
Turns out that's not what Jazzercise is at all. It's a dance exercise class. That's about it. An instructor stands up front and twenty or thirty or forty women get their heart rates up to music like Beyonce and U2 and whatnot. It's a combination of cardio, strengthening, and stretching, which is actually wise, because by the time the cardio portion is done, I'm so winded that it actually makes me look forward to doing strengthening stuff with a mat and weights, just because it means sitting on the floor.
"But Big Red Couch, why do you like paying for Jazzercise instead of driving fifteen minutes to a college gym that's free and has TVs playing ESPN all the time?"
Yeah, the answer is in the question. The driving. The oft-broken cardio machines. And especially, the ESPN. Also, there's the problem of me trying to motivate myself to push harder in my workout, as opposed to turning my mind off and letting someone else tell me to kick higher and squat lower.
And there's the music. And it's all women. And that may not sound like a big deal, but it is. Time with the sistahood, even if you don't know them all, is really valuable.
And there's the prizes. Go enough times, you get something from the prize box. It's simple, but it's like a carrot in front of a donkey. And I am that donkey.
But I digress. This is about me. Hanging out with virgins. Not in a we're all dead and this is Islamic paradise way. Just in a I-happen-to-know-a-lot-of-virgins way.
So, because you're inundated with politics, Thanksgiving stuff, and Christmas decor, Let's Talk About Virgins!
My calves are almost cramping. I say almost, because I think at the moment putting one foot in front on the other would create an Olympic athlete-scale cramp, the kind where everybody stops and rushes out onto the football field and everyone's like "oh no, he has a broken neck" but then it turns out to be a muscle cramp but the guy's too embarrassed to admit it so he hobbles off really feebly to make the point that he's not a sissy.
I've returned to Jazzercise. When I first heard the name "Jazzercise," I seriously thought it was like some old folks' exercise routine, like "Sittercise" on PBS where you sit in your chair and do waving motions or leg lifts to Patriotic music from the 30's or 40's.
Turns out that's not what Jazzercise is at all. It's a dance exercise class. That's about it. An instructor stands up front and twenty or thirty or forty women get their heart rates up to music like Beyonce and U2 and whatnot. It's a combination of cardio, strengthening, and stretching, which is actually wise, because by the time the cardio portion is done, I'm so winded that it actually makes me look forward to doing strengthening stuff with a mat and weights, just because it means sitting on the floor.
"But Big Red Couch, why do you like paying for Jazzercise instead of driving fifteen minutes to a college gym that's free and has TVs playing ESPN all the time?"
Yeah, the answer is in the question. The driving. The oft-broken cardio machines. And especially, the ESPN. Also, there's the problem of me trying to motivate myself to push harder in my workout, as opposed to turning my mind off and letting someone else tell me to kick higher and squat lower.
And there's the music. And it's all women. And that may not sound like a big deal, but it is. Time with the sistahood, even if you don't know them all, is really valuable.
And there's the prizes. Go enough times, you get something from the prize box. It's simple, but it's like a carrot in front of a donkey. And I am that donkey.
But I digress. This is about me. Hanging out with virgins. Not in a we're all dead and this is Islamic paradise way. Just in a I-happen-to-know-a-lot-of-virgins way.
So, because you're inundated with politics, Thanksgiving stuff, and Christmas decor, Let's Talk About Virgins!
Misconceptions About Virgins:
1. Virgins are sexually repressed and uncomfortable with their own sexuality.This is an interesting one. "Repressed" and "sexually inactive" are two different things, for one thing. There are a lot of sexually inactive women who aren't repressed. But if you're repressed, then you probably are sexually inactive.
So how is a woman not repressed, but sexually inactive? I'd use the quickly-regaining-popular-use term, "celibate." This means that you know you could have sex, but you choose not to. It also implies that sex isn't unappealing to you, but that you're simply refraining from it.
I'd say both sexually repressed women and sexually inactive women have a lot of tension. The difference is whether that tension becomes a negative (the former) or if it can be a positive. Ever notice how much convents and monasteries produce? Fruitcake, candy, wine, cheese...there's a lot of pent-up energy there, folks. Service projects, outdoor activity, and creativity can abound where there's a mentally healthy, sexually inactive woman.
A lot of virgins are very aware of their sexuality. Not in the sense that a seductive woman is: she is utilizing her confidence from past experience. But virgins are quite aware of their sexuality, which is why I've heard so many virgins express...frustration, from time to time. Some friends in college always called it being "stuck in neutral": the engine is there; it's revving; but there's no place to go. I've lost count of the number of laments I've heard from friends who are white-knuckled with being "horny." They do tend to be really productive, though: remodeling kitchens, running marathons. All celibate people have these experiences, regardless of whether they're still virgins.
2. Virgins are either weirdly religious or socially awkward: otherwise they would've seen some action by now.
There are virgins who aren't religious, and who aren't socially awkward. There are religious people who aren't virgins, and socially awkward people who aren't virgins. Some virgins believe their sexuality is tied to a robust expression of their faith, and many virgins are well-adjusted, fun people.
That being said, there are some virgins who lend extremely religious interpretations to All Things Sexual, and there are some virgins who Embody Social Awkwardness. But I wouldn't say the majority of virgins fall in one or both of these two categories.
The well-adjusted values virgin knows that she isn't denying her sexuality; she's disciplined and limited her expression of it. This means you can have a Christian virgin who knows that sex is good, that women and men worship God through a marriage covenant with consummation, and that - plug your ears, you squeam-o's - and that orgasms were part of the Eden plan of happy creation. (All you married people - or least, hopefully all you married people - are nodding your heads and saying Mmmmmhmm! Preach it, sistah!)
The well-adjusted social virgin loves others, values community, serves in her local context, builds meaningful relationships with others, and carves a niche for her calling. One of my virgo-friends, "Anne," beautifully embodies this. She's always part of something intriguing and nuanced: an arts consortium, or a Bohemian church plant. She delicately savors beauty, and cultivates healthy relationships with the care of a detailed horticulturalist.
3. Two virgins will find it impossible to have good sex.
A friend posed this question the other day: "So...how IS...IT? Has it changed? Has it gotten better?"
Because there's an underground community of virgin communication. No, it's not a different language, like Vulcan. I mean that when you have a group of friends who are virgins, as soon as the virgins begin to get married, all of the others are going to ask about it, and the now married people will give pragmatic advice. One of my friends was given a basket right before her (gorgeous) wedding, that included things like cranberry tablets, and ibuprofen.
Now, most people would think the next sentence is right out of the 19th century, and that I drive a buggy and hang out with the Amish. But I don't. They're nice people and all, I just don't know any Amish blokes. But the fact is, my husband and I were both virgos when we got married. (I know, men always roll their eyes and think a woman is naive if she believes it, but those men assume all other men are liars - which means that they probably are, too.)
All I have to say is this: virgins get a painful, uncomfortable picture of a honeymoon painted for them, with foreboding and dread. But surprisingly, the honeymoon isn't always that painful, uncomfortable, or dreadful. In fact - plug your ears, squeam-o's - I was surprised at how good it was, all things considered (all things being two virgins).
So, does it change over time? Well, it's different. But it's hard to qualify it as "better," because it's something you're both learning as you go, which by and in itself makes it quite sweet.
Here's the wrong assumption: experience makes things better.
Here's the correction: just about anything is more than a virgin's ever experienced, so because it's new, it's amazing. A roller coaster enthusiast can go on about how this one roller coaster is great, how technically superb it is. But is it any more thrilling for that person, really, than the first time someone else goes on any roller coaster?
I honestly think that fringe sex stuff is becoming more mainstream simply because there are fewer virgins. Virgins get a lot more bang for their buck, because they're more easily...well, you know. People who've had a lot of experiences need to find more and more extreme stuff because it takes more to rev their engines than it used to.
So this Thanksgiving, I raise my glass to virgins; here's to you, white-knuckled celibates. Three cheers for virgins!
So how is a woman not repressed, but sexually inactive? I'd use the quickly-regaining-popular-use term, "celibate." This means that you know you could have sex, but you choose not to. It also implies that sex isn't unappealing to you, but that you're simply refraining from it.
I'd say both sexually repressed women and sexually inactive women have a lot of tension. The difference is whether that tension becomes a negative (the former) or if it can be a positive. Ever notice how much convents and monasteries produce? Fruitcake, candy, wine, cheese...there's a lot of pent-up energy there, folks. Service projects, outdoor activity, and creativity can abound where there's a mentally healthy, sexually inactive woman.
A lot of virgins are very aware of their sexuality. Not in the sense that a seductive woman is: she is utilizing her confidence from past experience. But virgins are quite aware of their sexuality, which is why I've heard so many virgins express...frustration, from time to time. Some friends in college always called it being "stuck in neutral": the engine is there; it's revving; but there's no place to go. I've lost count of the number of laments I've heard from friends who are white-knuckled with being "horny." They do tend to be really productive, though: remodeling kitchens, running marathons. All celibate people have these experiences, regardless of whether they're still virgins.
2. Virgins are either weirdly religious or socially awkward: otherwise they would've seen some action by now.
There are virgins who aren't religious, and who aren't socially awkward. There are religious people who aren't virgins, and socially awkward people who aren't virgins. Some virgins believe their sexuality is tied to a robust expression of their faith, and many virgins are well-adjusted, fun people.
That being said, there are some virgins who lend extremely religious interpretations to All Things Sexual, and there are some virgins who Embody Social Awkwardness. But I wouldn't say the majority of virgins fall in one or both of these two categories.
The well-adjusted values virgin knows that she isn't denying her sexuality; she's disciplined and limited her expression of it. This means you can have a Christian virgin who knows that sex is good, that women and men worship God through a marriage covenant with consummation, and that - plug your ears, you squeam-o's - and that orgasms were part of the Eden plan of happy creation. (All you married people - or least, hopefully all you married people - are nodding your heads and saying Mmmmmhmm! Preach it, sistah!)
The well-adjusted social virgin loves others, values community, serves in her local context, builds meaningful relationships with others, and carves a niche for her calling. One of my virgo-friends, "Anne," beautifully embodies this. She's always part of something intriguing and nuanced: an arts consortium, or a Bohemian church plant. She delicately savors beauty, and cultivates healthy relationships with the care of a detailed horticulturalist.
3. Two virgins will find it impossible to have good sex.
A friend posed this question the other day: "So...how IS...IT? Has it changed? Has it gotten better?"
Because there's an underground community of virgin communication. No, it's not a different language, like Vulcan. I mean that when you have a group of friends who are virgins, as soon as the virgins begin to get married, all of the others are going to ask about it, and the now married people will give pragmatic advice. One of my friends was given a basket right before her (gorgeous) wedding, that included things like cranberry tablets, and ibuprofen.
Now, most people would think the next sentence is right out of the 19th century, and that I drive a buggy and hang out with the Amish. But I don't. They're nice people and all, I just don't know any Amish blokes. But the fact is, my husband and I were both virgos when we got married. (I know, men always roll their eyes and think a woman is naive if she believes it, but those men assume all other men are liars - which means that they probably are, too.)
All I have to say is this: virgins get a painful, uncomfortable picture of a honeymoon painted for them, with foreboding and dread. But surprisingly, the honeymoon isn't always that painful, uncomfortable, or dreadful. In fact - plug your ears, squeam-o's - I was surprised at how good it was, all things considered (all things being two virgins).
So, does it change over time? Well, it's different. But it's hard to qualify it as "better," because it's something you're both learning as you go, which by and in itself makes it quite sweet.
Here's the wrong assumption: experience makes things better.
Here's the correction: just about anything is more than a virgin's ever experienced, so because it's new, it's amazing. A roller coaster enthusiast can go on about how this one roller coaster is great, how technically superb it is. But is it any more thrilling for that person, really, than the first time someone else goes on any roller coaster?
I honestly think that fringe sex stuff is becoming more mainstream simply because there are fewer virgins. Virgins get a lot more bang for their buck, because they're more easily...well, you know. People who've had a lot of experiences need to find more and more extreme stuff because it takes more to rev their engines than it used to.
So this Thanksgiving, I raise my glass to virgins; here's to you, white-knuckled celibates. Three cheers for virgins!
Sunday, November 23, 2008
Levity
Levity.
As opposed to brevity, which you won't often find on this blog.
Or levitation, which you often won't find on this non-floating blog.
Levity - not the kind that Gov. Palin was talking about as she gave an interview after pardoning an Alaskan turkey - an interview held right in front of the turkey-goes-bye-bye jugular-slitting chute. On purpose? Who knows. Yes, liberals everywhere, there is a Santa Claus, and he eats turkey, too.
No, here's a little Couch-style levity for you: (hum "2001: A Space Odyssey" to yourse
lf)
You mean, like BACON AND EGG cuff links? Bwahahahahaha....inediblejewelry.com has you, once again!
As opposed to brevity, which you won't often find on this blog.Or levitation, which you often won't find on this non-floating blog.
Levity - not the kind that Gov. Palin was talking about as she gave an interview after pardoning an Alaskan turkey - an interview held right in front of the turkey-goes-bye-bye jugular-slitting chute. On purpose? Who knows. Yes, liberals everywhere, there is a Santa Claus, and he eats turkey, too.
No, here's a little Couch-style levity for you: (hum "2001: A Space Odyssey" to yourse
lf)
inediblejewelry.com
"Big Red Couch, that site is hilarious!" you think. I know, gentle reader. I know.
Hamburger earrings. Banana earrings. It's a perfect storm, really.
What's that? You're fretting? You have a friend who, in turn, has everything?
Yes, but does she have a California roll sushi necklace?
I didn't think so.
"But," you fret, "I'm looking for that hard-to-find gift...breakfast food cuff links..."
Hamburger earrings. Banana earrings. It's a perfect storm, really.
What's that? You're fretting? You have a friend who, in turn, has everything?
Yes, but does she have a California roll sushi necklace?
I didn't think so.
"But," you fret, "I'm looking for that hard-to-find gift...breakfast food cuff links..."
You mean, like BACON AND EGG cuff links? Bwahahahahaha....inediblejewelry.com has you, once again!
Poor Charlie. Poor, Poor Charlie.
Ever see "The Land Before Time"? And I'm not talking about crappy "Land Before Time VII," or any ridiculous thing like that. I mean the REAL one. The ORIGINal one. Hey, original has origin in it.
Anyway, in "The Land Before Time," one of characters melodramatically utters, "Poor Petrie. Poor, poor Petrie" (Petrie is a pterodactyl that can't fly.)
I don't have a pterodactyl, or "The Land Before Time," although I do mysteriously have the ability to spell pterodactyl, and I think that's because of my brother's childhood love of All Things Dinosaur, which has led to the fact that my first impulse in a store when I see something dinosaur-y is to buy it for him for Christmas. Then I remember he's 23.
Anyway, I do have a dog. Two dogs. My husband and I have two dogs, we've had them since February. They came to us via a stork, or a cabbage patch. They always disguise cabbage patches as humane societies.
Now Daisy is extremely intelligent: half beagle, half cocker spaniel, she's beautiful. She's also, in the family, the "kid" who's always into things, mischievous, curious, and in trouble, because she's so intelligent. She's also extremely pushy, kind of like Miss Piggy. My brother gives me ironic looks when I lament the self-entitlement Daisy seems to have. I don't know what he could possibly be implying.
Daisy came to us from a family who started having kids and decided she was too much to handle; so they gave her to a humane society that took...less than stellar care of its inmates. She was muddy, dirty, and did not have the lack of worms they claimed. She was also charming, outgoing, and a perfect girl dog for me.
But then we come to Charlie. Charlie is the dachshund that John wanted. Only he's a coon hound. After weeks of talking about how funny Dachshund's wormy little bodies are, after hours of scanning Dachshund rescues in Kentucky, and checking for Dachshunds on petfinder.com, which lists the animals in your area shelters...he became entranced with a coon hound.
A sweet, lovable, coon hound.
For the record, coon hounds are bigger than Dachshunds. He went to visit him at a shelter and came back with him the same day.
Poor Charlie. Poor, poor Charlie. I don't think Charlie had ever lived with people before. He's bigger than Daisy, but much more shy and retreating. When we brought Charlie home, he wouldn't leave his blanket for about four days. What people he had been around hadn't treated him well: he flinched, shied, and ducked. John finally picked him up and carried him around the apartment so Charlie would know he was welcome to, you know, get up and walk around.
It took him several days, but eventually he felt safe enough to leave his blanket.
Then we brought Daisy home, and un-neutered Charlie wasn't shy anymore. My brother still does impressions of my squawking. "JOHN, JOHN, STOP him JOHN, CHARLIE, NO! NO!" And so on.
But around people, Charlie is still shy. The dogs are best friends now, more like brother and sister than anything.
We've noticed something, though.
Charlie is kind of dumb.
Now, I still insist that he's not dumb, he's sweet. I also insist that it's more a language barrier, a sociological barrier than anything: he simply hasn't known how to live with people. Take words, for instance. Daisy picks up on words and their meanings as they relate to her quite quickly. She adjusts to routines, recognizes signals, so on.
Charlie is our foreign exchange student. Blank looks, querying expressions, goodwill, but oblivious to social customs and norms. He's sweet, he loves us, he loves to snuggle (I don't know if that's typical of all foreign exchange students), but he often has this frustrated expression that says "I can't make them understand me."
Which is why I'm so proud of him.
Because today - November 23rd - 10 months after bringing him home - he finally told me he had to go potty outside.
*Insert Ticker Tape Parade*
Usually, he waits for Daisy, the Type A of the two, to take the lead and tell us. She barks, she howls, she scampers to the back door. We sigh. We bundle up. We take her out. (They can't be trusted by themselves.)
Or, he sneaks into the corner and you hear a suspicious stream of something. You know, like with two year olds.
But today? He stared, intently. He barked. When I said, "potty," he scampered to the back door.
Ten months later, he's starting to get it.
Now, he does know how to sit for treats: John drilled that into him. And he knows "house" means his kennel, not a TV show on Fox. He pretends not to know NO, but he really does.
And he finally cued me that he had to go outside.
Now, progress with Charlie is spotty: it usually stops and starts, like a college student's beat up old car, spluttering, until it finally picks up momentum.
But today is a good day for Charlie.
Anyway, in "The Land Before Time," one of characters melodramatically utters, "Poor Petrie. Poor, poor Petrie" (Petrie is a pterodactyl that can't fly.)
I don't have a pterodactyl, or "The Land Before Time," although I do mysteriously have the ability to spell pterodactyl, and I think that's because of my brother's childhood love of All Things Dinosaur, which has led to the fact that my first impulse in a store when I see something dinosaur-y is to buy it for him for Christmas. Then I remember he's 23.
Anyway, I do have a dog. Two dogs. My husband and I have two dogs, we've had them since February. They came to us via a stork, or a cabbage patch. They always disguise cabbage patches as humane societies.
Now Daisy is extremely intelligent: half beagle, half cocker spaniel, she's beautiful. She's also, in the family, the "kid" who's always into things, mischievous, curious, and in trouble, because she's so intelligent. She's also extremely pushy, kind of like Miss Piggy. My brother gives me ironic looks when I lament the self-entitlement Daisy seems to have. I don't know what he could possibly be implying.
Daisy came to us from a family who started having kids and decided she was too much to handle; so they gave her to a humane society that took...less than stellar care of its inmates. She was muddy, dirty, and did not have the lack of worms they claimed. She was also charming, outgoing, and a perfect girl dog for me.
But then we come to Charlie. Charlie is the dachshund that John wanted. Only he's a coon hound. After weeks of talking about how funny Dachshund's wormy little bodies are, after hours of scanning Dachshund rescues in Kentucky, and checking for Dachshunds on petfinder.com, which lists the animals in your area shelters...he became entranced with a coon hound.
A sweet, lovable, coon hound.
For the record, coon hounds are bigger than Dachshunds. He went to visit him at a shelter and came back with him the same day.
Poor Charlie. Poor, poor Charlie. I don't think Charlie had ever lived with people before. He's bigger than Daisy, but much more shy and retreating. When we brought Charlie home, he wouldn't leave his blanket for about four days. What people he had been around hadn't treated him well: he flinched, shied, and ducked. John finally picked him up and carried him around the apartment so Charlie would know he was welcome to, you know, get up and walk around.
It took him several days, but eventually he felt safe enough to leave his blanket.
Then we brought Daisy home, and un-neutered Charlie wasn't shy anymore. My brother still does impressions of my squawking. "JOHN, JOHN, STOP him JOHN, CHARLIE, NO! NO!" And so on.
But around people, Charlie is still shy. The dogs are best friends now, more like brother and sister than anything.
We've noticed something, though.
Charlie is kind of dumb.
Now, I still insist that he's not dumb, he's sweet. I also insist that it's more a language barrier, a sociological barrier than anything: he simply hasn't known how to live with people. Take words, for instance. Daisy picks up on words and their meanings as they relate to her quite quickly. She adjusts to routines, recognizes signals, so on.
Charlie is our foreign exchange student. Blank looks, querying expressions, goodwill, but oblivious to social customs and norms. He's sweet, he loves us, he loves to snuggle (I don't know if that's typical of all foreign exchange students), but he often has this frustrated expression that says "I can't make them understand me."
Which is why I'm so proud of him.
Because today - November 23rd - 10 months after bringing him home - he finally told me he had to go potty outside.
*Insert Ticker Tape Parade*
Usually, he waits for Daisy, the Type A of the two, to take the lead and tell us. She barks, she howls, she scampers to the back door. We sigh. We bundle up. We take her out. (They can't be trusted by themselves.)
Or, he sneaks into the corner and you hear a suspicious stream of something. You know, like with two year olds.
But today? He stared, intently. He barked. When I said, "potty," he scampered to the back door.
Ten months later, he's starting to get it.
Now, he does know how to sit for treats: John drilled that into him. And he knows "house" means his kennel, not a TV show on Fox. He pretends not to know NO, but he really does.
And he finally cued me that he had to go outside.
Now, progress with Charlie is spotty: it usually stops and starts, like a college student's beat up old car, spluttering, until it finally picks up momentum.
But today is a good day for Charlie.
Saturday, November 22, 2008
High Strung
My mom says I'm high strung.
This is probably true.
That being said, oh my gosh: if you want to watch a completely disturbing movie featuring two of my favorite actresses, but will almost break your brain, watch "Notes on a Scandal." It's actually one of the best post-mortems of sin that I've ever seen, and the villain, when all is said and done, rather resembles the villain in Agatha Christie's "Curtain." Featuring the astoundingly good actress Dame Judi Dench, and the versatile Cate Blanchett, "Notes on a Scandal" should be required viewing for anyone who doesn't take evil seriously. That being said, this is not a film that should be watched with children in the house, or even late at night, because it will mess with your head, kind of like "Silence of the Lambs."
Another intense, gruesome, but mesmerizing thing that caught my attention lately? "Prime Suspect," with yet another brilliant British actress, Helen Mirren. This was a tv show that began in the early 90's - crime drama. So far, I'm enjoying it. Mirren's character faces similar challenges to that of "The Closer", Brenda Leigh Johnson, though without some of the peripheral humor.
I must've been in a dark mood when I lined up this portion of my Blockbuster Online queue.
This is probably true.
That being said, oh my gosh: if you want to watch a completely disturbing movie featuring two of my favorite actresses, but will almost break your brain, watch "Notes on a Scandal." It's actually one of the best post-mortems of sin that I've ever seen, and the villain, when all is said and done, rather resembles the villain in Agatha Christie's "Curtain." Featuring the astoundingly good actress Dame Judi Dench, and the versatile Cate Blanchett, "Notes on a Scandal" should be required viewing for anyone who doesn't take evil seriously. That being said, this is not a film that should be watched with children in the house, or even late at night, because it will mess with your head, kind of like "Silence of the Lambs."
Another intense, gruesome, but mesmerizing thing that caught my attention lately? "Prime Suspect," with yet another brilliant British actress, Helen Mirren. This was a tv show that began in the early 90's - crime drama. So far, I'm enjoying it. Mirren's character faces similar challenges to that of "The Closer", Brenda Leigh Johnson, though without some of the peripheral humor.
I must've been in a dark mood when I lined up this portion of my Blockbuster Online queue.
Wednesday, November 19, 2008
Neti Pot, Banana Phone
What a strange week.
On a trip to Wal-Mart I saw something a nurse friend recommended last winter:
On a trip to Wal-Mart I saw something a nurse friend recommended last winter:
This little puppy is a humidifier - it releases steam, only steam that smells like comfort and sinus clarity - thanks to some scented oils you pour in a cup on the top. As a frequent suffererer of sinus infections, which is like bottled misery, I was lamenting last winter. But, what ho! A weapon against the evil spoils of winter: a $13, steam-producing wellness machine.But that made me go over to the allergy aisle to get the scented oil for the steam to heat, which made me see this:
It's a neti pot. Don't laugh, I saw it on Oprah. It was also given glowing recommendations from allergy/sinus suffererers. I've been intrigued ever since. Here's why John wasn't keen on the idea, and my brother swore not to ever talk to me again if I got one:
Because this is what you do with it. If you're unclear on what you're seeing - well, you mix the saline solution in the pot, put the tip to your nose, and tilt the pot. Gravity does the rest. And by "rest," I mean, gravity pours the water into your nose, which subsequently means up your nose, through your sinuses, and out the other nostril. I need to do this sometime when Angie's seven-year-old son is over: it would totally make his day."But," you say, "aren't you generally uncoordinated, graceless, and without the ability to exercise spatial intelligence? And doesn't going under water make you splutter if you don't plug your nose?"
Well, if you put it like that, yes. But I read the directions, and most importantly, followed them, so when I felt it hit, I stayed calm.
"But," you say, "didn't you mention a banana phone in the title?"
Well, if you put it like that, yes. I ran across this sucker today:
Now, I've been talking into bananas for years. But never with actual phones in them. Don't ask. After I found this hot little item, this correspondence occurred with Emily:
ME: OH MY GOSH A BANANA PHONE.
ME: OH MY GOSH A BANANA PHONE.
EMILY: You may revel in the knowledge that this exists, but I forbid you to buy one.
Emily,
It’s a banana. It’s a phone. It’s a mind-blowing phenomenon.
I’ve been talking into bananas for years; they’ve just never talked back.
But now?
"There’s always money in the banana stand."
It’s a banana. It’s a phone. It’s a mind-blowing phenomenon.
I’ve been talking into bananas for years; they’ve just never talked back.
But now?
"There’s always money in the banana stand."
You don’t have a cell phone.
That’s because I didn’t have a banana.
OH MY GOSH
Please don’t be jealous. It’s just that fruit makes any phone call a party.
I have two choices.
That’s because I didn’t have a banana.
OH MY GOSH
Please don’t be jealous. It’s just that fruit makes any phone call a party.
I have two choices.
1. I can say, “You silly ape! Your logic is driving me bananas.”
Or
2. I can say, “Elizabeth, I’m going to peel a banana, blend the fruit with some cayenne pepper and garlic, refill the peel with the mashy mix, suture it closed, and then stick it up your butt if you don’t get some sense soon.”
Hmm. Which one should I pick?
Ah, friends. The spice of life. Emily, I think you're just jealous of my neti pot. I know you want one. Who wouldn't?
Advice to Malls
To Mall Managers Everywhere:
I do not want to see garish bows and lights before Thanksgiving. Respect Black Friday. With this economy, putting out Christmas decorations early won't make people spend anymore than what they've already budgeted, it will only disgruntle holiday purists who like to keep their seasons distinct. Don't press the nativity scenes on me while pilgrims are still out.
Every mall should have a coat check kiosk. The air in malls is hot and dry. I always forget this until I'm inside. Then I have to lug around a coat on one arm, next to my purse, while draping clothes to try on over the other arm. I would gladly pay a few bucks to check my coat at a central kiosk. I'm sure some moms out there would agree.
To employees in clothing stores: greet me once. That's it. If I need help, I'll ask for it. Don't bug me for your commission, and if you're bored, find something else to do besides sound surprised when I leave without buying any of your overpriced apparel.
More Salvation Army bell ringers. They're so friendly. Post them at each entrance.
Well, that's about it for the moment. Yes, I had to brave a shopping mall today. Why do you ask?
I do not want to see garish bows and lights before Thanksgiving. Respect Black Friday. With this economy, putting out Christmas decorations early won't make people spend anymore than what they've already budgeted, it will only disgruntle holiday purists who like to keep their seasons distinct. Don't press the nativity scenes on me while pilgrims are still out.
Every mall should have a coat check kiosk. The air in malls is hot and dry. I always forget this until I'm inside. Then I have to lug around a coat on one arm, next to my purse, while draping clothes to try on over the other arm. I would gladly pay a few bucks to check my coat at a central kiosk. I'm sure some moms out there would agree.
To employees in clothing stores: greet me once. That's it. If I need help, I'll ask for it. Don't bug me for your commission, and if you're bored, find something else to do besides sound surprised when I leave without buying any of your overpriced apparel.
More Salvation Army bell ringers. They're so friendly. Post them at each entrance.
Well, that's about it for the moment. Yes, I had to brave a shopping mall today. Why do you ask?
Tuesday, November 11, 2008
Under the Tree at the Couch
When you grow up, people never know what to get you.
A multi-pack of Play-Doh just won't cover the universal "kid" present base anymore.
Though I always did love Legos...
Anyway, I ran across a few exceptionally cute items at Pier 1's website while watching "House" tonight.
red bird plate. $5.
red batik dinnerware. $3-$4.
mercury glass votive holders. $4.
carved tree frames. $14 & $24.
fleur de lis embossed filled candle. $2.98.
paper star lanterns. $9 & $14.
golden floral rim dinnerware. $5 & $6.
blue printed toss pillow. $7.48.
vanilla almond latte candles. $6-$20.
embroidered pillow - sand. $24.
A multi-pack of Play-Doh just won't cover the universal "kid" present base anymore.
Though I always did love Legos...
Anyway, I ran across a few exceptionally cute items at Pier 1's website while watching "House" tonight.
red bird plate. $5.
red batik dinnerware. $3-$4.
mercury glass votive holders. $4.
carved tree frames. $14 & $24.
fleur de lis embossed filled candle. $2.98.
paper star lanterns. $9 & $14.
golden floral rim dinnerware. $5 & $6.
blue printed toss pillow. $7.48.
vanilla almond latte candles. $6-$20.
embroidered pillow - sand. $24.
I'm the kind of person who refuses to listen to Christmas music until after Thanksgiving. Only like the day after, but still. But as soon as the weather drops below eighty degrees, I hum happily, knowing that the season is changing, cool weather in the offing, hot tea steeping, Thanksgiving coming, Advent just around the corner.
Ahhhh. 'Tis the season.
Ahhhh. 'Tis the season.
Monday, November 10, 2008
Homina, Homina, Homina
Word has it that that comedian phrase comes from Jackie Gleason's character Ralph, in "The Honeymooners."
We've been chatting here at "the couch", not about what your dreams mean, or why you have a phobia of bats and tapioca pudding - that would be Freud's couch. No, we've been talking about humor.
Recently, I watched footage of an old Kennedy press conference - that guy was funny! Relaxed, (buzzed?) at ease with reporters, and avoiding answering any questions he didn't feel like answering - but with off the cuff wit that someone my age could only associate with Reagan or Clinton.
"But," you ask, "for those of us who don't sit around watching grainy archival footage for fun, what is there for US to laugh at?"
Hehehe. I promise not to name any politicians in response to that.
Arackbay Bobamamay.
See? No one named. I stay true to my word.
Laughter. As Reader's Digest informed me at a tender young age, the best medicine. I was heavily influenced by Reader's Digest as a child. I still remember a joke I didn't get. I get it now.
A family favorite for turning on the guffaw is a classic John Cleese British television series, "Fawlty Towers." Cleese, the gangly-legged member of Monty Python who still turns up in random roles (Nearly Headless Nick, in Harry Potter movies; the voice of a villain in "Fievel Goes West) plays an insufferable jerk who runs a hotel - not a good combination in the service industry. Once again, I plug online movie rental services: you can have obscure things like this pop up in your mailbox without having to suffer through the fact that the Blockbuster down the street doesn't even carry "The Godfather" anymore. Yes, that happened to me. A sour-looking youth in a blue shirt raised his eyebrow. "Basically, if it's good, classic, old - we don't have it. Try Patti's Video Barn down the road. SHE has everything." Oh, jaded English majors everywhere, cynical with the world.
One world development I'm very pleased to see in my lifetime is the advent of the boxed DVD series. Your favorite side-splitting show, available to watch again. And again. And again. Seinfeld. Everybody Loves Raymond. Malcolm in the Middle (to this day, Dewey is one of my all-time favorite TV characters.) 20/20.
Not really 20/20.
A fairly family-friendly movie I saw recently that had me laughing much more than I expected? "Get Smart," starring Steve Carell as Maxwell Smart. The funniest cameo in the film, by far, was Bill Murray in a tree. IN a tree. This should've done far better at the box office. But a line in it makes fun of Hollywooders who constantly issue a stream of political opinions, so it's possible the marketing department kind of shrugged and let this one fall to the side.
A hilarious kids' movie is "Flushed Away" - very British humor, which, ever since I saw a British improv troupe perform "Romeo and Juliet" in the streets of "England" in Epcot Center when I was six, has caused me to laugh until I cry. I laughed so hard, standing there at Epcot, that they finally paused and commented on it. Sometimes I wonder what cultural preferences are tacked onto our genes like a car-top carrier. Bagpipes have a very powerful effect on me, it's quite visceral and irrational. I want to dance, to kill something, to smear war paint on my face. Rainy days make me feel at home. Monarchy seems natural; but so does rebellion, which I think is where the Scottish influence is evident. I delight in verbal quips, puns, and plays on words. And I felt like I was going home when I visited the wind-whipped western Scottish shore.
My mom has always laughed at the British "Keeping Up Appearances," featuring Hyacinth Bucket ("it's pronounced Bookay"), and Dad has always laughed at the classic "Andy Griffith Show," especially Barney ("what's the matter Barn, eat too many green apples?") My brother howls with laughter at the show "The Office," but also giggles at the zombie/romantic comedy "Shaun of the Dead." I personally howl with laughter at the little-known British film "Death at a Funeral." John laughs at "Family Guy" and "The Office," and loves Will Ferrell's "Anchorman."
Let's not forget the rich comedic value of "The Muppet Show," which I sat and watched the other day with three other twentysomething's. We laughed and chortled. That Steve Martin is one wild and crazy guy.
I look forward to seeing the action-spoof "Tropic Thunder," and will be interested to see if this Thanksgiving "What About Bob?" makes it out of its box with John's family, since we won't be there for Christmas. I named a goldfish after the fish in that movie once.
Happy Laughing!
We've been chatting here at "the couch", not about what your dreams mean, or why you have a phobia of bats and tapioca pudding - that would be Freud's couch. No, we've been talking about humor.
Recently, I watched footage of an old Kennedy press conference - that guy was funny! Relaxed, (buzzed?) at ease with reporters, and avoiding answering any questions he didn't feel like answering - but with off the cuff wit that someone my age could only associate with Reagan or Clinton.
"But," you ask, "for those of us who don't sit around watching grainy archival footage for fun, what is there for US to laugh at?"
Hehehe. I promise not to name any politicians in response to that.
Arackbay Bobamamay.
See? No one named. I stay true to my word.
Laughter. As Reader's Digest informed me at a tender young age, the best medicine. I was heavily influenced by Reader's Digest as a child. I still remember a joke I didn't get. I get it now.
A family favorite for turning on the guffaw is a classic John Cleese British television series, "Fawlty Towers." Cleese, the gangly-legged member of Monty Python who still turns up in random roles (Nearly Headless Nick, in Harry Potter movies; the voice of a villain in "Fievel Goes West) plays an insufferable jerk who runs a hotel - not a good combination in the service industry. Once again, I plug online movie rental services: you can have obscure things like this pop up in your mailbox without having to suffer through the fact that the Blockbuster down the street doesn't even carry "The Godfather" anymore. Yes, that happened to me. A sour-looking youth in a blue shirt raised his eyebrow. "Basically, if it's good, classic, old - we don't have it. Try Patti's Video Barn down the road. SHE has everything." Oh, jaded English majors everywhere, cynical with the world.
One world development I'm very pleased to see in my lifetime is the advent of the boxed DVD series. Your favorite side-splitting show, available to watch again. And again. And again. Seinfeld. Everybody Loves Raymond. Malcolm in the Middle (to this day, Dewey is one of my all-time favorite TV characters.) 20/20.
Not really 20/20.
A fairly family-friendly movie I saw recently that had me laughing much more than I expected? "Get Smart," starring Steve Carell as Maxwell Smart. The funniest cameo in the film, by far, was Bill Murray in a tree. IN a tree. This should've done far better at the box office. But a line in it makes fun of Hollywooders who constantly issue a stream of political opinions, so it's possible the marketing department kind of shrugged and let this one fall to the side.
A hilarious kids' movie is "Flushed Away" - very British humor, which, ever since I saw a British improv troupe perform "Romeo and Juliet" in the streets of "England" in Epcot Center when I was six, has caused me to laugh until I cry. I laughed so hard, standing there at Epcot, that they finally paused and commented on it. Sometimes I wonder what cultural preferences are tacked onto our genes like a car-top carrier. Bagpipes have a very powerful effect on me, it's quite visceral and irrational. I want to dance, to kill something, to smear war paint on my face. Rainy days make me feel at home. Monarchy seems natural; but so does rebellion, which I think is where the Scottish influence is evident. I delight in verbal quips, puns, and plays on words. And I felt like I was going home when I visited the wind-whipped western Scottish shore.
My mom has always laughed at the British "Keeping Up Appearances," featuring Hyacinth Bucket ("it's pronounced Bookay"), and Dad has always laughed at the classic "Andy Griffith Show," especially Barney ("what's the matter Barn, eat too many green apples?") My brother howls with laughter at the show "The Office," but also giggles at the zombie/romantic comedy "Shaun of the Dead." I personally howl with laughter at the little-known British film "Death at a Funeral." John laughs at "Family Guy" and "The Office," and loves Will Ferrell's "Anchorman."
Let's not forget the rich comedic value of "The Muppet Show," which I sat and watched the other day with three other twentysomething's. We laughed and chortled. That Steve Martin is one wild and crazy guy.
I look forward to seeing the action-spoof "Tropic Thunder," and will be interested to see if this Thanksgiving "What About Bob?" makes it out of its box with John's family, since we won't be there for Christmas. I named a goldfish after the fish in that movie once.
Happy Laughing!
Friday, November 7, 2008
Indulge in Humor
Well, the national after-party hangover has begun.
Conservatives are morose and lackluster, staring out of gray windows and idly fiddling with knick-knacks.
Liberals are beginning to realize that the guy they just elected inherited an intensely large pile of crap, with the Dow plummeting since the election, and world leaders aiming really large missiles at each other.
So I think it's safe to say that the world needs some humor, to paraphrase the reasoning behind the start of Weasley's Wizard Wheezes.
For my two cents, I plan to watch a lot of comedy in the coming days. Old episodes of "The Office," new DVD releases, laugh-inducing You Tube clips. Our ability to laugh at ourselves is most important. Of course, a close second is laughing with (and my brother would say "at") others.
It's a serious world we live in, and I hope our new president finds himself safe and sound every moment of his executive tenure. That's something I worry about.
But we have enough worries - mortgages and rent, security and crime.
So for those of you who like to leave comments, please share with the rest of us your favorite comedies, movie and television.
An unlikely source of relaxation - unlikely to anyone not born in the 80's - has been a DVD set of "The Muppet Show," season two to be exact. A friend's son was spending time at our house yesterday, and he loves it - preferred to watch it over "Narnia" or "March of the Penguins" or cartoon "Robin Hood." There are so many puns that adults end up laughing, and so many visual gags that kids giggle nonstop. Who doesn't want to see Steve Martin talking to Kermit, or Gilda Radnor talking to Miss Piggy?
Share your old faves and new discoveries, so we can guffaw, laugh, giggle, belly-laugh, shriek, and howl.
P.S. I've posted fresh news items in the "Extra! Extra!" bar, not least of which involves a woman who ran a mile with a rabid fox chewing on her arm.
Conservatives are morose and lackluster, staring out of gray windows and idly fiddling with knick-knacks.
Liberals are beginning to realize that the guy they just elected inherited an intensely large pile of crap, with the Dow plummeting since the election, and world leaders aiming really large missiles at each other.
So I think it's safe to say that the world needs some humor, to paraphrase the reasoning behind the start of Weasley's Wizard Wheezes.
For my two cents, I plan to watch a lot of comedy in the coming days. Old episodes of "The Office," new DVD releases, laugh-inducing You Tube clips. Our ability to laugh at ourselves is most important. Of course, a close second is laughing with (and my brother would say "at") others.
It's a serious world we live in, and I hope our new president finds himself safe and sound every moment of his executive tenure. That's something I worry about.
But we have enough worries - mortgages and rent, security and crime.
So for those of you who like to leave comments, please share with the rest of us your favorite comedies, movie and television.
An unlikely source of relaxation - unlikely to anyone not born in the 80's - has been a DVD set of "The Muppet Show," season two to be exact. A friend's son was spending time at our house yesterday, and he loves it - preferred to watch it over "Narnia" or "March of the Penguins" or cartoon "Robin Hood." There are so many puns that adults end up laughing, and so many visual gags that kids giggle nonstop. Who doesn't want to see Steve Martin talking to Kermit, or Gilda Radnor talking to Miss Piggy?
Share your old faves and new discoveries, so we can guffaw, laugh, giggle, belly-laugh, shriek, and howl.
P.S. I've posted fresh news items in the "Extra! Extra!" bar, not least of which involves a woman who ran a mile with a rabid fox chewing on her arm.
Wednesday, November 5, 2008
What It All Means
Of course, there's plenty of "Monday morning quarterback"-ing going on.
(You fellow pale folk who never go in the sun or have interest in sports, that phrase refers to football fans' "expert" opinions and critiques on the weekends' football performances. It's slightly derogatory, like an "armchair" anything, "armchair philosopher," etc.)
Discerning people know that the next few years cannot be prophesied. The wise among us will dissect the downfall of McCain - there are some quite good dissections at National Review online.
Here are a few thoughts, headlines, results, newsworthy stories, and a general trick or treater's plastic pumpkin carrier of leftover Halloween candy thoughts.
1) This marks the end of the Karl Rove era. I can't say I'm crying too many tears over that. That he engineered two Bush wins, fine. It's the way he did it so often, that I think put people off to his strategies. As my grandma used to say about Gene Keady, one-time basketball coach at Purdue, and rival of Bobby Knight at IU, "he's mean." Mark my words: this election was less a referendum on Bush, no matter what anybody says, and more a referendum on party leadership, chief among them, Karl Rove. Or, as one usually conservative friend-turned-Obama-Republican said, "it's about showing them [Republicans] that this [Obama] is the kind of candidate we want." Is it a generational thing? Partly. But notice that both parties had an outside-the-beltway appeal: McCain tried to emphasize his "maverick" status, no one could argue that Alaskan Palin wasn't a part of Washington insiders, and even Obama managed to inherently make this argument via his "change" slogan - he's ultimately a Chicagoan, with little real Washington experience.
2. Branding matters. This is best shown in this Wall Street Journal piece, a fantastic piece of journalism. In particular, note that at one point, after five hours of debate, McCain's top five advisors couldn't come up with a campaign focus, or answer the question, "Why John McCain?" Now, (clear throat) it should be noted that all five were men, and one wonders if perhaps some women should have been in the discussion. At any rate, marketing matters, especially with the iPod crowd of voters.
But Obama? I can tell you right now what his brand is. #1, "Change." #2, "Yes We Can." There was even a great New York Times story several months ago on his choice of font for his campaign signs. And he utilized the old-fashioned call and response method: his message was change; the crowd response was "yes we can." Go to any black church on a Sunday, and you'll see call and response in action.
But what was McCain's brand? "Nation First." But I had to stop and think about it for several seconds before I could come up with it. Why? Partly because he had several different points he utilized instead of marketing one theme - "peace," "prosperity" and some other key words on signs. But you know, I can't help think that "nation first" was a terrible slogan to begin with. It's fine to be patriotic. But who do you know who's worried about "the nation"? Now, who do you know who's worried about their pensions, retirement, 401k, and so on? One is personal, the other is abstract. Personal beats abstract every time. And besides, many in his base wouldn't have said "nation first." They would've said "family first" or "faith first." He needed some fresh, inventive advisors, instead of the old guard, who didn't "get" his constituents.
3. Author Michael Crichton died unexpectedly. This has nothing to do with the election. It just made me sad. Michael Crichton wrote the phenomenally best-selling "Jurassic Park," as well as creating the show "E.R." and penning a book blasting the political use of scientific data, that is, the pandemic of global warming paranoia. You can read his Caltech speech, "Aliens Cause Global Warming," here.
4. Proposition 8 passed in California. Yes, most of us voted for people yesterday, but a few people voted on specific issues and referendums. Proposition 8 bans same-sex marriage, and passed in California yesterday. In the continual ping-pong match in that state (now it's legal, now it's not), voters have yet again voiced their opinions. What the courts will do next, who knows. If you watch the "Ellen" show, this will probably get mentioned. (I think Ellen is hilarious, and she usually doesn't engage in too much politics, but she has lately with the election.) Ellen DeGeneres recently "married" her partner, Portia de Rossi, in California.
[Aside: I use quotes around married, not to be pejorative, but simply to assert my belief that the state is not a giver or taker of sacraments, individuals are, as they are administered by the church. Because I believe marriage is sacramental, I don't think that the state, as such, has the ability to perform a "marriage." States legalize unions, churches marry. I know that's probably more esoteric than most people prefer, but it's the best way I know to describe my perspective on the issue. The debate, then, should be whether the state should sanction civil unions for same-sex couples. But most people use "marriage" and "civil union" as synonymous, which I acknowledge; and most people fighting for same-sex "civil unions" don't just want something the state sanctions; they want the more religiously tinged term, "marriage."]
5. Voters in Washington approved assisted suicide. You can read the story here. You need to know that for me, this is the most sobering news I've heard coming out of yesterday's voting. Washington is the second state to pass this kind of legislation, following Oregon. In my opinion, it is more troubling than any other thing I've seen. I wish that voters were half as concerned about this as they were about Proposition 8. Perhaps at some point I'll delve a little deeper into my reflections on life, death, and theology. For now, all I can say is that this should be fought at every level of government, state and federal, with the realization that how we treat life at the beginning and end of living defines us as a people.
6. There is a national schizophrenia. I don't say this to slam NAMI or mental illness, I say it to make the point that there were a lot of internal inconsistencies on ballots yesterday.
Voters wielded their ballots to vote in Barack Obama, but not to give Democrats their coveted 60 seats in the Senate; they voted in some states to ban same-sex marriage, but in others, to allow assisted suicide; red states predicted to be poached by Obama remained red; but swing states swung heavily in his favor, including Pennsylvania, who forgave the "cling to religion and guns" gaffe, as well as Murtha's "racist" and "redneck" comments about his own constituents. Missouri, usually a litmus of the national scene, is still too close to call, modeling nicely the fact that while Obama wiped the floor with electoral votes, the popular vote was considerably closer. Some Hillary supporters migrated to the Palin half of the Republican ticket, and some Republicans became "Obama Republicans" to Reagan's "Reagan Democrats."
Since I have declared the Era of Karl Rove dead, and given this national voter schizophrenia, I think it's obvious to state that the Republican Party Has Its Work Cut Out For It. Because it has four years to reformulate party leadership, come to grips with the new mood of the nation, and identify those conservatives who might be the next American Idol, I mean president.
If I had to bet today, I'd bet that Sarah Palin isn't done on the national scene.. I'd also bet we'll be seeing more of Bobby Jindal (I hope). Some veterans have exited the scene: Elizabeth Dole's disastrous ad against her opponent cooked her goose, and so we have another dynasty passing away.
If anything is clear, it's that we need Republican Party leadership with emotional intelligence.
(You fellow pale folk who never go in the sun or have interest in sports, that phrase refers to football fans' "expert" opinions and critiques on the weekends' football performances. It's slightly derogatory, like an "armchair" anything, "armchair philosopher," etc.)
Discerning people know that the next few years cannot be prophesied. The wise among us will dissect the downfall of McCain - there are some quite good dissections at National Review online.
Here are a few thoughts, headlines, results, newsworthy stories, and a general trick or treater's plastic pumpkin carrier of leftover Halloween candy thoughts.
1) This marks the end of the Karl Rove era. I can't say I'm crying too many tears over that. That he engineered two Bush wins, fine. It's the way he did it so often, that I think put people off to his strategies. As my grandma used to say about Gene Keady, one-time basketball coach at Purdue, and rival of Bobby Knight at IU, "he's mean." Mark my words: this election was less a referendum on Bush, no matter what anybody says, and more a referendum on party leadership, chief among them, Karl Rove. Or, as one usually conservative friend-turned-Obama-Republican said, "it's about showing them [Republicans] that this [Obama] is the kind of candidate we want." Is it a generational thing? Partly. But notice that both parties had an outside-the-beltway appeal: McCain tried to emphasize his "maverick" status, no one could argue that Alaskan Palin wasn't a part of Washington insiders, and even Obama managed to inherently make this argument via his "change" slogan - he's ultimately a Chicagoan, with little real Washington experience.
2. Branding matters. This is best shown in this Wall Street Journal piece, a fantastic piece of journalism. In particular, note that at one point, after five hours of debate, McCain's top five advisors couldn't come up with a campaign focus, or answer the question, "Why John McCain?" Now, (clear throat) it should be noted that all five were men, and one wonders if perhaps some women should have been in the discussion. At any rate, marketing matters, especially with the iPod crowd of voters.
But Obama? I can tell you right now what his brand is. #1, "Change." #2, "Yes We Can." There was even a great New York Times story several months ago on his choice of font for his campaign signs. And he utilized the old-fashioned call and response method: his message was change; the crowd response was "yes we can." Go to any black church on a Sunday, and you'll see call and response in action.
But what was McCain's brand? "Nation First." But I had to stop and think about it for several seconds before I could come up with it. Why? Partly because he had several different points he utilized instead of marketing one theme - "peace," "prosperity" and some other key words on signs. But you know, I can't help think that "nation first" was a terrible slogan to begin with. It's fine to be patriotic. But who do you know who's worried about "the nation"? Now, who do you know who's worried about their pensions, retirement, 401k, and so on? One is personal, the other is abstract. Personal beats abstract every time. And besides, many in his base wouldn't have said "nation first." They would've said "family first" or "faith first." He needed some fresh, inventive advisors, instead of the old guard, who didn't "get" his constituents.
3. Author Michael Crichton died unexpectedly. This has nothing to do with the election. It just made me sad. Michael Crichton wrote the phenomenally best-selling "Jurassic Park," as well as creating the show "E.R." and penning a book blasting the political use of scientific data, that is, the pandemic of global warming paranoia. You can read his Caltech speech, "Aliens Cause Global Warming," here.
4. Proposition 8 passed in California. Yes, most of us voted for people yesterday, but a few people voted on specific issues and referendums. Proposition 8 bans same-sex marriage, and passed in California yesterday. In the continual ping-pong match in that state (now it's legal, now it's not), voters have yet again voiced their opinions. What the courts will do next, who knows. If you watch the "Ellen" show, this will probably get mentioned. (I think Ellen is hilarious, and she usually doesn't engage in too much politics, but she has lately with the election.) Ellen DeGeneres recently "married" her partner, Portia de Rossi, in California.
[Aside: I use quotes around married, not to be pejorative, but simply to assert my belief that the state is not a giver or taker of sacraments, individuals are, as they are administered by the church. Because I believe marriage is sacramental, I don't think that the state, as such, has the ability to perform a "marriage." States legalize unions, churches marry. I know that's probably more esoteric than most people prefer, but it's the best way I know to describe my perspective on the issue. The debate, then, should be whether the state should sanction civil unions for same-sex couples. But most people use "marriage" and "civil union" as synonymous, which I acknowledge; and most people fighting for same-sex "civil unions" don't just want something the state sanctions; they want the more religiously tinged term, "marriage."]
5. Voters in Washington approved assisted suicide. You can read the story here. You need to know that for me, this is the most sobering news I've heard coming out of yesterday's voting. Washington is the second state to pass this kind of legislation, following Oregon. In my opinion, it is more troubling than any other thing I've seen. I wish that voters were half as concerned about this as they were about Proposition 8. Perhaps at some point I'll delve a little deeper into my reflections on life, death, and theology. For now, all I can say is that this should be fought at every level of government, state and federal, with the realization that how we treat life at the beginning and end of living defines us as a people.
6. There is a national schizophrenia. I don't say this to slam NAMI or mental illness, I say it to make the point that there were a lot of internal inconsistencies on ballots yesterday.
Voters wielded their ballots to vote in Barack Obama, but not to give Democrats their coveted 60 seats in the Senate; they voted in some states to ban same-sex marriage, but in others, to allow assisted suicide; red states predicted to be poached by Obama remained red; but swing states swung heavily in his favor, including Pennsylvania, who forgave the "cling to religion and guns" gaffe, as well as Murtha's "racist" and "redneck" comments about his own constituents. Missouri, usually a litmus of the national scene, is still too close to call, modeling nicely the fact that while Obama wiped the floor with electoral votes, the popular vote was considerably closer. Some Hillary supporters migrated to the Palin half of the Republican ticket, and some Republicans became "Obama Republicans" to Reagan's "Reagan Democrats."
Since I have declared the Era of Karl Rove dead, and given this national voter schizophrenia, I think it's obvious to state that the Republican Party Has Its Work Cut Out For It. Because it has four years to reformulate party leadership, come to grips with the new mood of the nation, and identify those conservatives who might be the next American Idol, I mean president.
If I had to bet today, I'd bet that Sarah Palin isn't done on the national scene.. I'd also bet we'll be seeing more of Bobby Jindal (I hope). Some veterans have exited the scene: Elizabeth Dole's disastrous ad against her opponent cooked her goose, and so we have another dynasty passing away.
If anything is clear, it's that we need Republican Party leadership with emotional intelligence.
Promised Land
Almost one hundred and fifty years ago, a war ripped the still-adolescent United States of America in half. Lights twinkled on the northern side of the Ohio River, beckoning slaves through dark, moonlit paths, across the water. To reach the other side was to breathe the air of freedom. Some of those houses still stand on the northern bank of the river dramatically captured in Harriet Beecher Stowe's "Uncle Tom's Cabin," in Eliza's frantic escape scene.
- The Lord, by Moses, to Pharaoh said: Oh! let my people go.
- If not, I'll smite your first-born dead—Oh! let my people go.
- Oh! go down, Moses,
- Away down to Egypt's land,
- And tell King Pharaoh
- To let my people go.
The North was the Promised Land. In broader meaning, the Civil War was fought to make sure that all the borders - north, south, east, and west - of the United States lined a whole Promised Land, in which plantations built on the shoulders of whip-scarred slaves did not constitute the only future for a person with black skin.
One hundred years later, the Promised Land still wasn't present in the South, and the
Civil Rights movement demanded that a little seamstress tired from a day of work should sit wherever she wanted on the city bus.
In the last decade, President George W. Bush has created the most diverse administration in the history of this country - including Elaine Chao, Alberto Gonzalez, Margaret Spellings, Carlos Gutierrez, Gen. Colin Powell, and current Secretary of State Condoleezza Rice.
There will be plenty of time in coming months to state my disagreements with the ideas of the now Majority Party. Goodness knows I've done that sufficiently the last few months.
But today - today is a day to express, in a completely new way, Thanksgiving. The United States of America has overcome a burdened common memory replete with the pain of past wrongs, the struggles of the present to live with dignity, and the scramble to ensure for the future the knowledge, in living memory, of a living, breathing, tangible example of someone in leadership who looks just like you.
I do not have to agree with the policies and positions of the now dominant party to appreciate the profound nature of what just happened. In fact, it is because of the memory of felt pride when John McCain named Sarah Palin his running mate, that I can appreciate what it means to feel represented; what it means to feel that someone like you has been honored; what it means to know the healing effect that the gift of dignity brings.
Just a few months ago, I wrote about what it felt like to watch a woman receive honor: the way it washed away the pain of having seen women mistreated. Sharp memories dulled a little in their ability to wound.
I am so profoundly proud to know that sisters and brothers around my nation get to feel that today. If there is a ghost in the Lincoln bedroom, as White House rumors speculate, he must be smiling to know that from the days of Lincoln, the White House has come full circle.
Any man or woman who has a certificate tucked away in a chest full of heirlooms that shows a mother or grandfather's entrance into the United States through Ellis Island should reflect on the gifts available to all immigrants.
Hispanic citizens working hard to learn a new language, navigate a new government, and earn money for their families can sense the new urgency of motivation - there is room, in our country, for you. There is room for you to do whatever you have the courage and vision to carry out. There is room for Gonzalezes, for Smiths, for O'Hares. And yes, for Obamas.
The Lord, by Moses, to Pharaoh said: Oh! let my people go.
If not, I'll smite your first-born dead—Oh! let my people go.
If not, I'll smite your first-born dead—Oh! let my people go.
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- Oh! go down, Moses,
- Away down to Egypt's land,
- And tell King Pharaoh
- To let my people go.
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